COACHING THE ALPHA PERSON

Daniel Gil’adi, USA


Abstract

The strengths that got you here are not necessarily the ones will get you to achieve your future aspirations.  Your strengths, if polarized, may become an obstacle for the achievement of your goals and the organization’s strategic objectives. During the session participants will learn how personal characteristics perceived considered strengths, often prevent us from achieving more success. Therefore, how can we become more conscious of that process and develop the necessary tools to change for the better. For example: how to have our emotions at our service and develop personal and organizational allies to become invested in our change.  

 

Personal Characteristics Alpha Person

Value to others 

Danger to others

High self-esteem

Clear ideas

Acts decisively, has good intuitive sense

Authoritative, rigid in his ideas

Very passionate

Drives others to achieve strategic objectives

Has a difficult time with those that disagree with him

High commitment, success driven

Always ready to give more, runs the extra mile

Nothing is good enough, others could do more

Talks to the point, clear communication

Generates clear expectations

Aggressive, insensitive to others’ weaknesses

Very focused on what needs to be done                      

Self motivation, exceeds own expectations, delivers high quality results

Over committed, difficult time delegating, micromanagement, lack of trust, excessive control

Does not relate well to feelings 

Knows how to separate personal from professional issues

Difficulties in developing interpersonal relations and at times insensitive to people’s personal dilemmas

Poster Presenter:

Daniel Gil’Adi has a Post Doctorate in Clinical Psychology from Temple University, A Ph.D. from Bryn Mawr College in Clinical Developmental Psychology, a Master in Clinical Psychology from Bar-Ilan University in Israel. He has done an externship in Family Therapy at the Philadelphia Child Guidance Clinic.

His training in systemic thinking has provided him with a depth of understanding of the complex relationships that exist among the participants in any living system.  He has contributed to the process of change in the relationship among the members of organizations and, as a result, has helped them grow and develop.  The author of three books, “Leadership: A Masculine Domain?” (Dolmen, 1999), “Leadership: A personal Decision”; and “Emotional Intelligence in Practice” (McGraw Hill, 2001) (McGraw Hill, 2004), (all of the Spanish) and numerous papers, he has been a professor, consultant and motivational speaker in Latin America, Israel and the US for more than twenty years.